pre- wedding course

okay,

1st day of the course.

so nervous since i don't know what to expect. 

this course is held for 2 days,

today n tomorrow.

around 100++ IPIK students took part. 

most of them are seniors,

luckily, 

athie, puteri, weyn and many more from my cohort also took part.

otherwise, i might freaked out.

however, i want to make it clear. 

my intention of going to this course is to be ready for the future.

i am not saying that i want to get marry like this year or next year.

i am not "gatal" or "gedik" or "gelojoh".

i juz want to get ready.

futhermore, 

this course will be the last time for the old module,

the pre-wedding course held outside will be using new module + the participants will have to do 50 questions,

so, i got to escape the questions. 

hahaha~

today's topics:

1. communications

husband and wife must have good communication. 

talk when there is problem. 

do not raise your voice to your spouses. 

wife, remember that husband is the way to Jannah (heaven). 

husband, remember wife is not your slave.

2. health management

both bride and groom has to take care of their health.

eat healthily and exercise.

oh yeah, 

before the bride and groom are granted for their wedding, 

they have to do a check up at the government hospital for HIV. 

it's a must.

if the result is ok, then they can continue the majlis.

otherwise, they have to stop it.

so, don't forget to be careful and do a check up.

3. marriage procedures
i don't really know about this,
coz it's kinda confusing,
so, better ask your dad or imam around the house.

4. fiqh & 5. aqidah
these two topics require a more knowledgeable person,
therefore, it is better for you to ask an imam or ustaz.
they are the most correct choice rather than me.
because if i tell it wrongly, it might meant something else.